So, I had my OB appointment yesterday. It went like this:
He walked in, shook my hand, asked how I was. i told him I was fine, scared that there wasn't a live baby in me, and that I really needed reassurance.
He asked if I was bleeding, I said no.
He ran down the list of pregnancy symptoms, after saying he figured I knew them all, then said ok, we will do an ultrasound in two weeks, see you then, and walked out.
That was it.
So, no reassurance.
Most surprising, I didn't have to drop my pants. I've never had a dr not at least check during the first OB appointment. And I have had 8 first appointments from pregnancy.
The husband keeps telling me to stop stressing and just assume that the baby is fine.
I say I have had more losses than live births. I am not ready to just believe again.