Let me try to explain. When people ask about us, and we have to say we are divorced, people instantly figure we are just living together for the kids. We then have to explain that we are still in love, we still love each other, being together, we just, well, got divorced. between the cost of the wedding, and the cost of the divorce, doing it again isn't really cost effective. Also, right now, going to school, not being married gets me better money. Which is important. Also, I don't know if we were to get married again, if it wouldn't end in failure. We've been together 11 years. We got married in 2002. We got divorced in 2007. So, together 2000, married 2002, divorced 2007, now is 2011. That means we were married still longer than we have been divorced. Ok, I'm good with that.
That was a bunch of nothing. Sigh. Ok, I will post pictures of the birthday girl then. Most of my readers were around back when I suffered from my miscarriages, from before the boychild. I think. Back then, I was blogging at Broken or Not. If you remember me from then, woohoo for you, its been a while, and thanks for sticking by me. If you are new, well, I had multiple miscarriages before I got pregnant with the boychild. I started blogging after I had my last miscarriage, so I actually had no losses once I started writing. I got lucky. Then I got divorced. And then I got pregnant, oops, with my daughter. She turns 3, as I mentioned above. So, pictures. We had the party at the local pool, but we rented it for 3 hours, so it was just our family.
|She loves posing, but it has to be a funny face.|
|This was her birthday cake. My best friend did the decorating. Thank you!!|
|The boychild. He is 6. I don't know how that happened. He is going into 1st grade next month. yes, I am going to cry, just like I did when he went into Kindergarten.|